Ways to Remember Your Baby |
What you do will be depend on your needs; however, we have provided some suggestions offered by other parents and families.
This list includes organizations and companies that were recommended by other parents.
The Northside Hospital Perinatal Loss Office is not affiliated with any of the companies listed.
This list is in no particular order.
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Name your baby If you don’t know the gender of your baby, use a gender-neutral name or a nickname. 
Here is a list of names and their meanings: www.name-meanings.com |
Create a baby album or storybook using your keepsakes and photos 
If you are interested in creating a storybook, you can consult with Betty Miller, a Heritage Makers representative. Her first son was born 16 weeks too early and only lived for 2 short weeks. The storybook that she created for him is a celebration of his life and includes the only photos that they have of him as well as his entire life story. Writing her baby's story was very healing and helped to restore peace in her heart. http://www.heritagemakers.com/252540 |
Create a memory box, collage, or shadowbox
Many keepsake boxes are homemade, but they can also be purchased.




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Plant flowers, bulbs, or a tree in remembrance of your baby 

The entire family, including children, can particpate. Each birth flower holds distinctive symbolic traits. Below is a guide to each month's specific flower and the meaning tied to their petals: January Carnation: pride and gratitude with its gorgeous floral scent and abundant paper-like petals February Iris: faithfulness and virtue with its royal purple hues and elegant stem March Daffodil: affection and new beginnings with it's bright yellow tones and sunny disposition April Peonies: riches and honor with its full, rounded bloom full of paper-like petals May
Lily: purity and humility with its sweet fragrance and large star-like petals
June Rose: love and happiness with its encircling petals and famous scent
July Delphinium: lightness with its refreshing fragrance and columned blooms
August Dahlia: dignity and elegance with its rounded bloom full of lush petals available in many bright and rich colors
September Aster: elegance and affection with its lush texture and jeweled hues
October Calendula: joy and modesty with its bright hued petals and happy disposition November
Chrysanthemum: optimism and cheerfulness with its hardy textures and bright myriad of available colors and types
December Holly: good will with its vibrant red berries and hardy green leaves
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Write an obituary or send an announcement
sample infant obits
http://babydekar.com/sample-infant-obituaries/
online memorials www.atlantapnl.com http://www.valleyoflife.com/ http://www.mybabymemorial.com/ http://www.gonetoosoon.org/ http://angelbabymemorials.blogspot.com/ http://www.imorial.com/ http://www.respectance.com/
announcements http://www.griefwatch.com/pl/announcements.htm http://ferdinandsgifts.wordpress.com/2007/07/31/birthdeath-announcement/ http://www.aplacetoremember.com/pdshop/shop/category.aspx?catid=44 http://elegantmemorials.com/how-to-write-an-obituary/sample-obituaries
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Write a letter to your baby. 
Talk about your plans for all your futures, your hopes and dreams. Make it a whole story about your plans for the pregnancy, the pregnancy itself and anything else you can think of. |
Holiday Ornaments 
Make or purchase ornaments that pay tribute to your baby.
http://dying.lovetoknow.com/Child_Loss_Ornament http://www.findgift.com/gift-ideas/pid-47902/ http://www.intimeofsorrow.com/or55025.html http://www.sundancedesigns.net/memorial_ornaments.htm http://www.missinggrace.org/ShoppingCart.html http://www.personalizationmall.com http://www.kcic-christmas-ornaments.com/family_life_ornaments.htm http://www.russellrhodes.com/products.asp?dept=91 http://lovingthemforever.com/memorialornaments.php http://www.santasornamentshop.com/shopdisplayproducts.asp?cat=Memorial&catid=1532
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Have a pencil portrait drawn of your baby
http://www.pencil-portrait-drawing-artist.com/id195.html http://www.sketchesbybethany.net/Memorials.htm http://www.sketchesbybethany.net/Memorials.htm http://www.portraitsbydana.com/
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Memorial Bricks and Naming Opportunities 

Share Atlanta Remember Georgia's Children Foundation
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Just a Cloud Away Remembrance Kits, Angelversary Items http://www.justacloudaway.com/index.html
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Heart Gems
Bereavement Jewelry Each pendant carries its own special meaning http://www.myheartgems.com Read about Heart Gems’ contribution to the Northside Perinatal Loss Program http://www.myheartgems.com/articles.asp?id=135
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Miscarriage Memories
cards, charms, pendants, ornaments, lapel pins, etc http://www.miscarriagememories.com/servlet/StoreFront
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Abbey Press has a pendant in the shape of a teardrop with a rose in the center to signify Loss and never ending love, baby foot print pins, angel pins, and angel necklaces. www.abbeypress.com
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The Shining Light Fund
Offers birthstone mother's bracelets, free of charge, as tangible remembrances of life http://www.shininglightfund.org/map.htm
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The March of Dimes Bereavement Kit for Parents
Includes an envelope with sections to put keepsakes, photos, ultrasound pictures, and designated lines for information about the baby. Call 1-888-MODIMES or email askus@marchofdimes.com
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Sara's Smile, Inc
Non-profit organization created for the sole purpose of comforting bereaved mothers with a Sara Bear www.sarasmile.org
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HAIN (Heavenly Angels in Need)
Non-profit organization providing baby clothing and memory boxes to hospitals in their effort to help "families one angel at a time" heavenlyangelsinneed.com/index.html
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Certificate In Remembrance of a Heavenly Angel Lost
www.plannersguide.com/angel.htm
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The Comfort Company
Sympathy poems and cards and bereavement and condolence gift ideas with the hope of bringing comfort and remembrance to those who are grieving www.thecomfortcompany.net
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My Forever Child
Memorial keepsakes, remembrance jewelry, and sympathy gifts to comfort those touched by the loss of a child, no matter what age. They also have pieces for trying to conceive with positive affirmations and metaphysical gemstones for fertility and pregnancy support. www.myforeverchild.com/store/Default.asp
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La Belle Dame
Jewelry and cards to nurture and support the spirit, including a special line of memorial jewelry for grandmothers and aunts www.labelledame.com/miscarriage-infant-loss.html
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Amy's Angels
Custom handmade products to raise money for families who have lost babies http://www.shop.amysangels.com/main.sc
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Little Angels Online Store
Books and other products that will help you deal with your loss and help you put together some special memories for your little one http://www.littleangelsonlinestore.com/index.php
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Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Items
http://www.rememberingourbabies.net/store/Default.asp |
Little Footprints
Keepsakes for miscarriage, stillbirth, infant, or child loss http://www.freewebs.com/thelittlefootprints/index.htm
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A Place to Remember Support and memorial materials for those who have been touched by a crisis in pregnancy or the death of a baby including special baby books, music, keepsake items, and cards www.aplacetoremember.com |
Missing Grace Organization
List of memorial gift links http://www.missinggrace.org/LinksMemorialsGifts.html
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Acknowledgements Gifts that send a lasting message of comfort and support to a grieving heart
http://www.acknowledgements.net/products/foreverloved.htm
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Angel Babies in Heaven Memorial Stones
http://www.angelbabiesinheaven.net/Infant-Loss-Memorial-Keepsakes.html
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Hanami Prints
Offers a safe place to honor the brief but beautiful life of a much loved and much missed child. Remembrance gifts to help you through the most difficult of journeys – learning to live without your child. Specialize in g unique items that can be personalized with your photos, your thoughts, or your words http://hanamiprints.com/zencart/
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Birthstone Jewelry
Make or purchase jewelry using your baby’s birthstone. January Gemstone: Garnet January Birthstone Color: Deep Red February Gemstone: Amethyst February Birthstone Color: Purple
March Gemstone: Aquamarine, Bloodstone March Birthstone Color: Pale Blue April Gemstone: Diamond April Birthstone Color: White, Clear May Gemstone: Emerald May Birthstone Color: Green June Gemstone: Pearl, Moonstone, Alexandrite June Birthstone Color: White or Purple
July Gemstone: Ruby July Birthstone Color: Red
August Gemstone: Peridot, Sardonyx August Birthstone Color: Pale Green September Gemstone: Sapphire September Birthstone Color: Deep Blue
October Gemstone: Opal, Pink Tourmaline October Birthstone Color: Multi-color, Pink November Gemstone: Citrine, Yellow Topaz November Birthstone Color: Yellow December Gemstone: Blue Topaz, Turquoise December Birthstone Color: Blue |